The Most Effective Way to Change Your Partner Is to Accept Them the Way They Are

Acceptance is a growth accelerator

Judith Victoria
4 min readJun 15, 2020

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When my ex and I got together, he was a mediocre cheater. I tried everything to turn him into an honest man, instead, he just became a better cheater.

I am not the only one who has made the mistake of trying to change their partner. A lot of…

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Judith Victoria
Live Your Life On Purpose

Essays on life, love, and other lousy stuff. Otherworldly flash fiction & romantic short stories. Failing forward. Perpetually amazed.